Ma Wa Gray

Why is it that no matter how many percale 100% Egyptian cotton pillow cases you buy you'll always end up with the torn pillow case that your sister used when she was in boarding school?

Junior school play dress rehearsal day. The makeup schedule arrives late on the day of the first show. People forgot the slots they had booked and are halfway to work.  Chaos.  Mothers run from the coffee shop in their active wear to lend a hand. Hair nets are flying. Kids look jaundiced in their mother's foundation. Childhood freckles disappear. Lipstick is applied and eyeliner runs across lids. Little bodies squish into leotards. Its show time. 

Today I am chosing to trust that the only expectation God has of me is to have faith like a mustard seed. One doesnt have to force faith. One doesnt need to be overwhelmed with trying. One simply has to have a small fragment of the star dust faith from which God made us to know that we are linked to an infinity larger universe and a Creator who is infinitely larger than it all. 

 In the busyness of lunchboxes, PE kit, lifts to hockey games and missing school ties its easy to forget that this is exactly the life I prayed for. 

 Last night I went to watch our choir perform. It's the final choir performance for our current matrics. I don't think it was planned but both Bjorn and Liam's younger brothers happened to be standing next to them in the choir rows. As they took their positions on the stage for a final time both sets of brothers cast knowing, naughty smiles at each other. A smile that doesn't need words, or an explanation. A smile of secret jokes and shared memories. A smile that tells you that you belong.  Yesterday I wasn't home and Stephen was working and so Gray took it upon himself to do Eva's homework with her. And this morning he made sure she had her tennis racquet. And he does a great deal of small interventions in her day to make it joyful and fun. When she hugs him she says he smells like safety.  When I hug my brother I feel the same.

Its snowed the other day. From our verandah, with the use of binoculars, we could see the white tips of the Drakensberg.  A few days later Stephen used a clever app to work out which mountain is which. The mountain we could see covered in snow was Cathkin. My home.  On a normal hazy day we wouldn't be able to see that far but on that magical morning, when the world was cleaned of all its grime and the frosts blanketed the Midlands with their crisp, I could see home. Heaven is home. If we are wise we build our houses to face it, focusing on a place that we know in our heart exists, even if we cannot see it. And on some miraculous days we catch a glimpse of that beloved place. And we are reminded of the homecoming that we live for.